I didn't know OOUI was actually deprecated. Not to get into in a side issue, but is it really officially deprecated, or is it just sort of implicit that, given that a competing library is being developed, OOUI is not going to get much attention any more?
In any case, this doesn't seem like a satisfactory answer. If an extension's interface is going to adhere to the Wikimedia Design Style Guide (which is also not mentioned in this document, by the way), OOUI is still the easiest way to achieve that, as far as I know. Let me ask this: if a new extension were created today for use on Wikipedia or other Wikimedia sites, and it contained form elements, how would its UI be coded so that it matched the style guide? Or would it simply have the default HTML gray buttons? (Doubtful.)